It’s quite common these days for people to want to change they way they look and while many will claim they’re doing it for themselves, and perhaps some are, most are doing it because they want to be treated differently or rather be considered more desirable.

Men & women all over the world embark each year on a journey to change their appearance, to feel healthier, happier, more confident, blah blah blah.

Basically people want to look better naked, attract more partners and not be treated the way they currently are.

I suppose the question people might as is ‘are you really treated any differently?’ and the answer is yes. If you’ve made a body transformation you’ll know what I say is true and while it might change how people treat you an devon how they feel about/towards you, it won’t necessarily change how you feel about yourself, in fact it could make you feel worse because of the point that stares you in the face – why didn’t people treat you this way before, you are the same persona after all, are aesthetics really that important in this world?

Yes, sadly they are.

They shouldn’t be however they certainly are.

You’ll get more attention. Served faster at the bar. Offered more opportunities because your face fits and much more, it’s just how it is.

Some people are born with in to a legacy, one of perfect proportions, chiselled jaw lines, athletic superiority and generally an easier life.

Is it fair?

Nope, however that’s imply life and you’ve got to deal with it.

While it is frustrating to see people breeze through, even squander their gifts, it’s something that happens and making peace with it is the only way to remain on the side of sanity.

Just remember one thing, how you look is the least interesting thing about you.

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