Sometimes it’s not your fault you know.
You never asked for any of it.
Alas that doesn’t stop the world from selecting you as the person to shoulder the burden and clean up the mess, that’s just life I’m afraid.
If you take some time to just observe the people around you then you will see just how many others have been jilted and left with the same responsibility, no consent needed they just have to deal with it because life is sadly not fair and rarely works out in our favour.
Of course it’s not all bad as these little tests help you grow as a person because nothing prepares you for the moment quite like the moment itself.
The next time you think to yourself that life isn’t fair just know this, it isn’t and there’s not a damn thing you can do about it other than solider on, so chin up, back straight and keep moving forwards.